Child sex abuse can be very disastrous in the life of a person.
This is because they have been assaulted and defiled and therefore, some feel that that is not hope for them.
This can result in suicide or living a debauched life as a result of this. But in this article, we will see how these ones can overcome their painful experiences.
When a person is abuse, he or she has a feeling that people of the opposite sex, family members or friends cannot be trusted.
This is especially true when this one was abused by a close friend or a family member.
Those abused may also feel that their life has been made worthless and so, there is nothing they can do to enrich it and live normally again.
These feelings are wrong because even though the abused has endured pain, both physically and emotionally, quitting in life is not the solution to the problem.
This can be best described when a person's house is on fire and after seeing the massive damages done to the house, the owner decides to stop putting effort to get help and quench the fire.
But unknown to the owner of the house, there was something very precious and valuable to him/her.
When the fire is finally out, the person realizes the mistake he/she has made by forgetting the precious valuable that would have been useful in resettling and having another house to live in.
The owner of the house is the person who has been abused.
The fire is the bad incident or abuse which he/she has experienced before as a child.
The decision to give up as lost is not going to help matters as this one would feel hurt and restless knowing his/her life has been marred by an unfortunate event.
But unknown to the one who has been abused, being a normal human again is possible and not out of reach if only this ones would try to grasp for a new meaning in life and cling to it.
This would be like a floater thrown at a person who is on the verge of drowning in the ocean.
Also, never forget to encourage such a person to see a therapist if the condition is getting out of hand. Emotional trauma could lead a person to a life of depression and frustration.
We do not want this to happen to our loved ones. So we would try our possible best to shield our loved ones away from these bad-minded child sex abusers and let them know of the dangers they may face.
This would be a wise step to take.
Child sex abuse is really a menace but, we can fight it! Always look for avenues to reassure those abused that they are not worthless as a result of this.
Encourage them and keep them company so they would later re-integrate into the society.
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